Wednesday, July 17, 2013

5 Simple Ways to Change a Bad Day

Joseph Campbell said that we are the hero of our own story.  It is so easy to lose sight of that when a day isn't going well.  But sometimes it just takes one small act of heroism (and faith) to make the day change direction.  Pick one and let me know how it turns out... 



1.  If you see someone struggling today-- with a package, a door, a math problem, a lane change-- stop what you're doing and help them right now.





2.  If you have something that you need less than someone else does at this moment, give it to them right now.





During a protest in Brazil, a General said, "Do not fight.  Please, not on my birthday."  Then a group of protesters made a surprise for him.


3.  Holding a grudge is exhausting.  Think of a grudge you're lugging around and say "Bygones!"  Just let it go.  Whew.  Even better- call up that person and reconnect right now.




A firefighter giving oxygen to a kitten rescued from a house fire

4.  Think of a talent you have, something that comes easy to you but might not be so easy for others.  Now think of someone near you that needs that skill or advice, and offer it right now.




via Pinterest Dela Dream

5.  Think of someone you are thankful for, and tell them right now.



And last, here's a story I read today:

A grandfather was talking with his grandson and he said, "In each of us there live two wolves who are fighting.  One is anger, envy, regret, greed, lying, annoyance, impatience, self-pity, guilt, superiority, false-pride, and ego.

The other is good.  It is joy, peace, love, hope, forgiveness, serenity, humility, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."

"Which one will win?" asked the grandson.

"The one you feed," said the old man.




19 comments:

sjr said...

Lovely post, thank you

Kerry Steele- Design du Monde said...

Love it! Its great to these on good days too.

Anonymous said...

Came across your blog by chance today...really needed to read this. Thank you!

debra @ 5th and state said...

profound, thank you for this post

Karena said...

Wonderful I love the imagery!

xoxo
Karena
2013 Artists Series

Mumbai said...

Thank's for that reminder which became much more intensive through the wonderful pictures and
the wisdom of the grand father. You changed my day.

Virginia Country House said...

Hi, Thank you! :)

Virginia Country House said...

Hi Kerry, thanks. I agree, so true!

Virginia Country House said...

Hi, I'm so glad you found us. How nice. I have found that if I go to the library, the "right" book just jumps off the shelf at me. So it must work with blogs too! :)

Virginia Country House said...

Hi, aren't they the best! Images like that are one of the great strengths of photography.

Virginia Country House said...

And you, mine. :)

Karen said...

What a touching and inspiring post. I love the images and am nearly in tears. Thanks for this wonderful reminder that we can make life rich by what we choose to do.
Karen

Jennifer @ Belclaire House said...

Inspired! Thank you!

Virginia Country House said...

Hi Karen, great to hear from you. You are so right, it is often the small things we do that manifest in big ways.

Virginia Country House said...

Hi Jennifer, have a great weekend!

Pigtown*Design said...

just lovely. thanks for that monday morning inspiration.
xo

......Michele @ Portlandia Vintage said...

Beautifully done. Thank you

Unknown said...

What an exquisite post. THANK YOU.
xo Nancy

Elizabeth Golden said...

This was a great post. Thank you..

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