This is an adults-only post, so if you are not over 21 (and you know who you are) please move along, there is nothing for you here.
According to fourth generation New Orleans bartender Chris McMillan, "Southern bartenders need grace, decorum and a sense of theatricality," (Garden & Gun, February 2013)
When planning your home bar, keep in mind that it isn't necessary or desirable to mimic the selection or atmosphere of a commercial establishment. A home bar can be as simple as spirits and mixers in a basket on patio, or you might eschew variety all together and become known for a "house" drink, like fresh whiskey sours or mojitos with mint from your garden.
In any case, whether or not you choose to serve alcohol at all, in the South, entertaining is about being a gracious host and making guests feel special. A little planning, tools at the ready, and high quality ingredients on hand make graceful entertaining a lot easier to accomplish on the spur of the moment. Check out Blackberry Farm's recipe for a refreshing Sorghum Mint Julep, here.
The Lewis bag is an essential tool for serving drinks in the heat and humidity of a Virginia summer, because the bag keeps ice dry while you crush it. A carpenter's joiner mallet works fine- a flat striking head is much more effective at banging ice than a rounded one.
A bar spoon is about the size of a teaspoon but has a long handle that can reach to the bottom of tall glasses. This one is especially nice with its perforated bowl.
A stainless steel muddler mashes fruits and muddles your mint in a jif,
and a jigger is helpful for measuring.
Cocktail shakers are useful and sometimes pretty. There are shakers with a strainer lid (which have a tendency to leak, so be sure to read the reviews before purchasing one) and
Boston shakers, which require slight of hand or a separate strainer tool. These are less likely to leak, but do take a bit of practice to master.
Love this do-it-all malachite bottle opener.
Linen cocktail napkins are festive and always appropriate, and since we monogram everything but the dog here in the South, these would be right at home on a Southern bar.
If linen is (understandably) too much trouble, paper is a fine option, and a trip to Charlottesville would not be complete without a visit to Caspari to see their vibrant seasonal patterns. I love this one, appropriately named "Endless Summer." Find it here
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Stocking a home bar seems endlessly complicated, but it doesn't have to be. The editors of Martha Stewart.com, here, suggest fewer varieties of the highest quality. After all, you're not running a night club.
The List:
You may love big, intensely flavored gin so filled with complex botanicals that it tastes like the floor of a forest, and there are gorgeous aged tequilas for $600 a bottle, but for simplicity's sake, the spirits we've reviewed below, while not avant-garde or wildly expensive, are noted for their quality, smooth taste for sipping, clean flavor in mixed drinks, and somewhat universal appeal.
If your friends love trendy martinis and flavored liquors, a festive way to offer them at a party without going broke buying large bottles of things you'll never drink again, is to pile a selection of mini bottles in a basket or crystal bowl.
Important--In the classic bar manual American Bar
, Charles Schuman cautions hosts that a good cocktail is not necessarily a large one, and it goes without saying that one should drink and serve responsibly, and never, ever drink and drive, or allow guests to do so.
It is absolutely not necessary to serve alcohol to be a good host or to have a good time. There are thousands of articles on the internet that advise hosts how to recognize the limits of guests and prevent them from over-indulging, as well how to know when guests have had too much and what to do about it. It is important to check the regulations in your state for drinking and serving alcohol to guests. MADD reminds hosts not to rely on coffee to sober-up guests, and because only time can make someone sober, recommends closing the bar at least 90 minutes before the party ends. Read their safe party guide by clicking here.
Basic Bar:
Vodka- Hangar 1 Straight vodka is distilled in small batches from Viognier grapes and wheat right here in the U.S. Ultra-smooth with no burn, it's sippable, and also makes a super martini. Note: We're keeping things simple but it would be a grave injustice not to mention Hangar 1's Fraser River Raspberry vodka. I don't generally like flavored vodkas because they taste weirdly chemical to me, but this one tastes like fresh raspberries, albeit with a kick.
Rum- Do not skimp on quality here. The best rums will transport one (taste-wise anyway) to the islands. The cheap ones will transport one to a back alley. This Zaya 12-year old rum will make a rum and Coke that will knock one's socks off. A luscious blended rum with flavors of maple and vanilla, smooth enough to drink straight.
Gin- The perfect gin and tonic should be clean, dry, crisp and fresh. Tanquery No. Ten makes a good dry martini and an excellent gin and tonic. And here's a little secret, if you normally make your G &T with 2 oz. of gin and 6 oz. of tonic, for a slightly drier, cleaner taste, try using half tonic and half club soda and see what you think. Rub the wedge of lime around the rim of the glass and give it a squeeze before you toss it in.
Tequila- Tequila lovers recommend that if one is going to buy Tequila, buy 100% blue agave, or just skip it. Tequila comes in four official aging categories, which are determined by how long the tequila is rested before bottling. Unlike some other spirits, a longer resting doesn't necessarily determine the quality. I choose a "Reposado," which is tequila aged from 60 days to year. This generally mellows the agave without obliterating the flavor with massive oakiness. Herradura Reposado has the color and slight flavor of butterscotch and is smooth enough to drink neat but clean enough to mix, at a reasonable price.
Whisky (or Whiskey)- Hard red winter wheat, malted barley and yellow corn, with no rye, make this bourbon distinct. Delicious and smooth, Maker's Mark has a hint of spiciness and a mellow carmelly-vanilla, creme brûlée flavor without being too sweet. A classic bourbon for mixing or drinking neat. I also keep Jack Daniels, a Tennessee whiskey, on hand.
Kahlua- Kahlua is a versatile liqueur. It makes several notable cocktails, a grown-up version of hot chocolate or adult's-only dessert-in-a-pinch over ice cream.
A bottle of something with a unique flavor for mixing your favorite "house" cocktail, perhaps Campari, St. Germain, Midori or Amaretto. Right now St. Germain is popular and the beautiful bottle looks nice too.
Additionally, one might consider stocking bitters, a dry vermouth for martinis, small bottles of good club soda and tonic water, Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite, Ginger-ale (Schweppes!) and cranberry juice cocktail.
An ice bucket and pitcher will be handy for serving cocktails or lemonade and iced tea. This 18/10 stainlesss steel ice bucket from Calphalon is double-walled, keeps ice frozen for hours, and has a plexi-glass top so it's easy to see when ice needs to be replaced. The perforations on the scoop are a useful feature. Find it here
. One might also stock some good olives and fresh fruit (lemons, limes, and oranges) for fresh juices, as well as beer, and red and white wine. Ina recommends keeping bottle of good champagne in the refrigerator.
How do you like to entertain? What are your bar basics? Do you have a favorite house cocktail? Recipes, as you know, are always welcome...
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6 comments:
There is something so beautifully welcoming about walking into a home and seeing a well appointed bar!
xoxo
Karena
The Arts by Karena
I use rum in my refrigerator cake recipe and for the glaze, and that's about it!
Nina,
I was enlightened by the vodka selection, I had never heard of Hangar 1. Here on the west coast, most of my friends drink wine and/or beer. Good chardonnay or a nice Pinot Noir for most of them. The beer, absolutely must be micro brewed and I check with both of our sons for recommendations of the latest. Summer we all enjoy a vodka (Kettle One or Absolute - Mandarin) over ice with soda or tonic. I know, sacrilege to serve vodka tonic, but most of my friends enjoy vodka over gin. I personally like a good gin and tonic, with lime, of course.
Fun post and as the heat and humidity has been relentless, I may have to fix myself a vodka/soda when I get home from work. :-)
Karen
What a great and thorough post...we are hosting a dinner party in less than 2 weeks so this is helping me brush up on my skills!! I agree about a beautiful and elegant linen monogrammed napkin "taking it to the next level" when entertaining....all you showed are fabulous ideas!
Hello, I've just stumbled across you lovely blog and you have me hankering for a cocktail. Lately, we've been enjoying making and drinking cucumber gimlets. They are delicious, refreshing, and our guests are always inspired to ask for "one more, please".
Thank you for this well written and very enlightening post! I will be entertaining quite a bit for the holidays as our European family will be here in California for a visit, and this has given me some wonderful guide lines for setting up an elegant bar.
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