"It is utterly forbidden to be half-hearted about gardening. You have to love your garden, whether you like it or not." W.C. Sellar 1936
My grandparents had a 400 acre farm in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, where I spent every available moment as a child.
From dawn to dusk, like a small annoying dog, I followed my grandfather as he did his chores, showing him bugs, talking to him about the new kittens in the barn, and ballet shoes, and did he want to swing on the tire swing, and how's come the tractor is red, and why do they call them Black-eyed Susans?
One morning, squatting in the dirt in the vegetable garden, I tugged on the lacy tuft of a new carrot, thinking that I would check on its progress and see how it was doing down there in the dark and if it needed any help growing. My grandfather explained that a carrot knows the right thing to do because it is connected to the earth.
Like everything else on the planet, human beings are made up of hydrogen, oxygen, carbon and nitrogen (plus a smidge of phosphorus, iron, sodium, silicon, sulphur, ammonia and a pinch of trace elements)
but unlike a carrot, humans seem to put an extraordinary amount of effort into trying to separate ourselves from our connection to the earth and other living beings. Perhaps the fate of humans will be as Winston Churchill once famously said of Americans, that we always get it right in the end, we just try everything else first.
"If you are not killing plants, you are not really stretching yourself as a gardener."
J.C. Raulston
The mystery of nature is, to a great extent, the allure of gardening.
A speck of dirt on my gardening glove is billions of years older than I am and contains a whole inner cosmos that is undetectable to the most powerful microscope- an infinity in a microcosm.
"When weeding, the way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant."
A garden will grow or die, but it will not be intimidated or rushed.
The wisdom of its passive resistance slows us down and draws us back into the slow circles of nature. This may be why the horticulturalist, artist, garden designer and writer, Gertrude Jekkyl, said that a garden is a grand teacher.
It teaches patience and careful watchfulness, industry and thrift, and above all, she said, it teaches entire trust in the nature of nature.
The American love of gardening began with the first settlers who arrived in search of arable land. Their kitchen gardens were derived from typical English plans- a walled garden, lined with fruit trees and divided into beds.
"A cauliflower is a cabbage with a college education."
Mark Twain
The first American gardening book, A Treatise on Gardening, is believed to have been written in the 1760s by John Randolph, the last Royal Attorney General in colonial Virginia, and a member of one of Virginia's most influential families.
Espaliered fruit trees allow efficient fruit production, and were used to create a focal point, define the boundaries of a garden and decorate walls and fences,
such as those at Mount Vernon.
There are many beautiful ways to espalier trees,
and it's a wonderful technique for small space gardening,
or even rooftop gardening in the city.
A basic espalier form is the horizontal cordon. A double cordon can be shaped in about two years.
Or you could espalier some Rosemary this afternoon.
"My rule of thumb for mulch is to double my initial estimate of bags needed plus three.
Then I'm only two bags short."
The best garden design incorporates elements that stimulate, and elements that relax.
Water features are classic details because they often do both. Even a compact terrace can have a birdbath or small fountain.
A water feature is sometimes an afterthought, but consider when planning your garden, that it might actually be the best place to begin.
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It can provide an axis or focal point, mask noise and create architectural interest with hardscaping.
"You don't have too many slugs,
you merely have a deficiency of ducks."
A water feature can be a grand place for ducks,
or just practical. And fun.
Just remember in gardening that growth takes time. Be patient. And while you're waiting, pull a weed.
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10 comments:
Gardening is a passion of mine. Even in my postage sized yard I delight in planting new things and watching them grow, or not! Sadly, Southern California does not have much of a frost ever, so lilacs and peonies (two of my favorite flowers) do not grow very well here. Some of these images inspire me to try to find a place for a water effect.
Karen
Beautiful post. Beautiful pictures. You are a gifted writer. I love you blog.
So inspirational!
Too few have your aesthetic.
Jane Austen would approve of the pics. Rustic gardens.
Garden & Be Well, XO T
Kathy, you are such a dear! I certainly needed that today! N.G.
Hi Karen, sometimes small spaces are the most fun, because it is so much easier to create a strong and cohesive theme. I am guessing that a water feature in your garden would be wonderful- another layer of sensory pleasure. I'm always surprised at how nicely they mask background noise and help people relax as well.
Hi Tara, I'm so happy you stopped by! Thanks for the compliment. You have such a great blog, it means a lot coming from you! N.G.
I thoroughly enjoyed this post! No one loves garden more than I do. Stunning images and lovely quotes too.
Thank you for sharing.
Teresa
xoxo
This Virginia gardener thinks this post is one of the most beautiful ever. And I love the quotes!!! Especially the "weed vs. valuable plant" quote. I once weeded some unsightly stalks after watching them closely for an entire summer and deciding that they must be weeds. That afternoon I saw the same unsightly stalks for $6.00/pot at my favorite nursery. They were a form of fall-blooming sunflower. And about $50 worth of them were in my compost. Durn.
This is a beautiful post! Loved all the quotes, just wish you had given credit to our great creator God, who made it all for us and for His good pleasure. What an imaginative God we serve, may He continue to bless you and yours!
Truly beautiful images and storyline. I am officially ready for winter to come to an end. Please see to it that spring arrives promptly.
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